The psychologists are thought by me and agony aunts who suggest
Individuals who have OCD or other health that is mental or dilemmas, can wind up using it literally as well as in our situation, for 24 years!!
in my own ex’s instance, it offers resulted in the many pathetic display of childishness and parenting that is irresponsible i really could ever have thought. He seldom visits our son, does buy him anything n’t or help him with things.
The worst component is, he nevertheless insists on equal control – pushing their fat around on choices over our son’s life but does not talk about such a thing beside me very first and would go to the agencies that do the 24/7 care, totally bypassing me. Telling them to not tell me he’s said this and that!
I appreciate my situation differs from the others to ‘the norm’ but individuals with kids and disabled young ones or strange ex’s, are out here, do additionally nevertheless should be counted and considered before ‘one size fits all’ advice is dished out arbitrarily, while the proper option to behave.
My entire life is really a nightmare and my ex helps it be impossible in my situation to simply access it with only being truly a mum that is good having any genuine standard of living with my kiddies. Interfering but never ever caring.
He’s one really bitter, twisted, self centred man that is old makes use of this being a control and manipulation which was inside our wedding, against all that i will be. Even now…He does not care so it’s perhaps not advantageous to our lovely kiddies.